love, Love or LOVE

I just watched Win a date with Tad Hamilton. Mostly a MEGA cheese movie minus Hillary Duff some how. The movie climaxes in an unforgivable scene in mimics a Tad Hamilton scene that the main characters watched at the begining of the movie. Boooh.

However the bartender in the movie spouted out heavy duty love philosophy that made me wish I had seen the movie as a teen.

Her words of wisdom:

There are three loves.
One that you get over in two month (which she called love)
One that you get over in two years (great Love)
And one that you never get over (The LOVE)

She later said that when The Love is rejected, the rejected person finds someone to love... second best.

Your first question might be why was I watching such a movie. It's saturday evening and I am a fan of Topher Grace. It's not like I highlighted it in TV Guide.

It really left me questioning my choices in life. Did I turn away from The Love to find a second best and then a third best and then a fourth best? Or were they just great loves?

I wish I had seen this movie a long time ago. Or at least met the bartender a long time ago.

I'll have to think about this a little more.